how do you pursue?

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how do you pursue?

Postby little_tigress » Fri Sep 05, 2014 4:04 pm

So you've met someone who has caught your eye and you want to move to the next level. How do you go about that?
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby Ethnog » Sat Sep 06, 2014 1:19 am

Stalk him.
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby little_tigress » Sat Sep 06, 2014 1:29 am

I like the way you think :D
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby Ethnog » Sat Sep 06, 2014 7:00 pm

I thought about a more mature answer and I can't think of any.


This is why I will always be single.
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby little_tigress » Sat Sep 06, 2014 8:28 pm

Bah! I firmly believe I'll be dancing at your wedding before too long.

I just think you're like me. You're not overtly flirtatious with guys, and you don't jump into things. That's not a bad thing. It just means when you and I finally find our men and settle down, our marriages will be stronger for it. Because we were careful.
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby Ethnog » Sat Sep 06, 2014 10:48 pm

Sometimes I'm too careful, and I shut people down because I can't express my feelings.

I'm so bad at showing romantic emotions in the beginning stages.
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby Toro » Wed Sep 10, 2014 1:22 am

BAH!

Any man would be lucky to be stalked by such great women as Ethie or LT.

For me it depends on the circumstances.

Generally I dont change anything, I talk to her as I would any other woman and just see where it goes.

Just cause I find a woman beautiful doesn't mean I HAVE to date her, it simply means I find her to be a very attractive woman.

I simply talk to her, see if I can have fun with her, see if she has a sense of humor, likes, dislikes. Talk to her like making a new friend. If it goes past the friendship, great. If not, thats fine too.

Wooing a woman is a complex thing as all women are different so Id rather it progress naturally. :P

With that small break between insane postings.......... I now resume my stalking of LT. *putting binoculars back to eyes*
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby MacFall » Wed Sep 24, 2014 3:38 pm

Go do something else until the feelings go away.
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby Amber » Sat Sep 27, 2014 5:19 pm

Go middle school- have your friend tell their friend you are interested.

Or just have a mother like mine who offers you as a bride to any guy who is single and not a Satan worshiper.
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Re: how do you pursue?

Postby little_tigress » Sat Sep 27, 2014 5:21 pm

Or better yet... Put a note in their locker that says:

"Do you 'like' like me? Check yes or no"
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