Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

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Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Ethnog » Sun Aug 03, 2014 6:45 pm

Yes/no/ maybe
Ill give my thoughts later.
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby little_tigress » Sun Aug 03, 2014 7:37 pm

Generally speaking, no. though I s'ppose it would depend on who was calling me that. if it was a guy I actually had a relationship with, its flattering. Though I'd still prefer to be called beautiful to hot.

if its some random person on the street, its not OK.
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Wren » Sun Aug 03, 2014 7:55 pm

If I'm ever called that, I'll let you know. :P

If it's cat-calling, then I'd hate it. If it's from a spouse, then I'd be all for it. (WrenHubby calls me beautiful, though, and I greatly prefer that.) If I posted a pic of myself on facebook in a dress and got called that by friends, then I'd probably be thrilled (unless I'd worry that the dress is too sexy).
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby mina » Sun Aug 03, 2014 11:04 pm

Only by my husband!

I don't think I'd ever get called that except by someone trying to make fun of me- which has happened before. So if it was a stranger I'd just assume that they were trying to be mean and I'd get away asap.
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Leothelioness » Mon Aug 04, 2014 1:37 am

Honestly, yes it's very flattering. Although I get gorgeous or beautiful far more than I do hot. :lol:
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Ethnog » Mon Aug 04, 2014 1:45 am

When I was younger I never got those words... Mostly "cute" and that would hurt my feelings. I wasn't 5 to be cute you know? I have been getting "hot" lately and it has been surprising me. I know a hot woman when I see one so it's nice when someone sees that in me but I don't believe it myself.
It's interesting to me that as I grow older I have gotten more attention by the opposite then ever in my life. I am not sure what changed but it's nice sometimes.
Do I get the nasty comments.... Yeah I hate those but the genuine ones are sweet and surprising. Surprising because it comes from a specific person who I never thoughts would pay attention to me.
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Leothelioness » Mon Aug 04, 2014 1:55 am

Ethnog wrote:When I was younger I never got those words... Mostly "cute" and that would hurt my feelings. I wasn't 5 to be cute you know? I have been getting "hot" lately and it has been surprising me. I know a hot woman when I see one so it's nice when someone sees that in me but I don't believe it myself.
It's interesting to me that as I grow older I have gotten more attention by the opposite then ever in my life. I am not sure what changed but it's nice sometimes.
Do I get the nasty comments.... Yeah I hate those but the genuine ones are sweet and surprising. Surprising because it comes from a specific person who I never thoughts would pay attention to me.

Isn't that great, Ethie?! I remember when I started getting called pretty/beautiful/gorgeous, etc. I was very taken aback because I had never been called those things and I didn't believe it. Still don't sometimes. But it is nice when it's coming from someone who you thought would never notice you. :)
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Ethnog » Mon Aug 04, 2014 1:58 am

Yes! A month ago a man stopped me at the grocery store and gave me a compliment. At first I thought he was kidding. I couldn't even believe a gorgeous man like that would notice me in a second. I told the office manager about it and said jokingly, "i still got it" haha
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Leothelioness » Mon Aug 04, 2014 2:30 am

I had the same thing happen not too long ago. One of my girlfriends from work and I were at a show and there was this guy that, I kid you not, looked like he came out of a magazine. He was literally perfect and she was like, "Let's go walk past him. He's so hot." And we did and as we were walking past he said to me, "You have a great smile.....and gorgeous eyes." And all I could do is just stare at him in shock. :lol: I know I probably looked stupid, but I couldn't believe this guy was paying me a compliment!
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Re: Ladies do you like being called "hot?"

Postby Amber » Tue Sep 16, 2014 4:21 pm

I would love it. Hasn't happened yet and probably won't since I'm cursed with a baby face :(

I call guys and girls alike hot. It means they are visually pleasing but being hot does not necessarily mean I'm attracted.
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